not sure you budget but if you want cheap, you can get a mini remote and then make a mod to make it smaller ( there is a thread here, search avio mini remote mod) or if you want something more classy you could go for the Hoyt St Puck remote for 100$.
Also just edit you first post to fit all you words because making a new post for one word is obnoxious lol
Not to sound rude @mikEEE but it sounds like you need to do some more reading of the forum before continuing further into your DIY journey. I can completely understand your frustrations as I have had my only board on the bench for the last 18 months with no end in sight. I remember when I first joined DIY esk8 I just read everything for a month or two before before even making my first comment, let alone actually building. The information contained here is indispensable, and will allow you to troubleshoot with ease. The search bar is great, and the big brains contained here are also super helpful.
Feel free to send me a PM and we can work through your issues mate
Yah @xsynatic sorry I am using some kester basically same thing it looks like maybe slightly lower rosin content think it says 1.1% but it works well enough.
I use a Weller iron wesd51 that I like but think any iron that gets hot enough can do, hear good things about the hakko as well. I set it to around 400C typically but will bump temp like 20-30 degrees for bigger parts like bullets. Iâm also pretty ocd about wiping off the tip in a solder cleaner thing here and try to add a bit of solder to the tip before I let it cool so the tip doesnât oxidize.